Young men are told to drink their soy, and to dilute their “toxic masculinity,” because women like weak, sensitive guys. There is even a move to promote “cuckolding,” as part of the new politically correct gender relations for the last remaining heterosexual males:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTSvLKY7HEk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=21&v=_PFVN0zlzuA
https://edition.cnn.com/2018/01/25/health/cuckolding-sex-kerner/index.html
The problem is that women do not like these soy boy males, but instead, go for the traditional John Wayne style man:
“A collaborative study led by Prof. Gurit Birnbaum, head of the experimental psychology program at the Interdisciplinary Center (IDC) in Herzliya, indicates that women don’t find “responsiveness” in a man to be sexually appealing. Published in July in the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, the research project involved three studies, one observational and two experimental.
In the first study, 56 pairs of men and women — single, heterosexual Israeli university students — discussed a problem in one of their lives. In the second and third studies, participants sent online chats about a life problem to someone they thought was a person of the opposite sex; in reality, they received an automated reply that was either responsive or unresponsive to their woes.
When participants rated their conversation partners for responsiveness, sexual attractiveness and how typical they seemed for their gender, on average the males labeled responsive women as more feminine and therefore more sexually attractive as a potential partner. Yet the female participants were, on average, slightly less attracted to men who seemed more responsive, viewing such responsiveness as a feminine quality. They were more attracted to men they found masculine, meaning not necessarily very responsive.”
https://www.israel21c.org/women-really-dont-like-sensitive-men-study-finds/
http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0146167214543879
All this is well known at the street level, and explains the popularity of 50 Shades of Grey, and related pulp fiction. It shows how very wrong feminism is, but it was never intended to present the truth, only undermine it.